With the exception of what is going on right this second of your existence, everything else is a story. A story is an account of an event that is not currently present to your senses. It can be based on memories or entirely imaginary. Either way, the stories that circulate through your head can be categorized into 4 main types:
Things that happened or things that could have happened. Things that you believe have happened or things that you have been told have happened. These include interpretations of history/herstory.
Things that you imagine as possible or likely. Things you hope for and things you fear. Things that others predict or things that others think about your future.
These might be gossip or interpretations of what’s going on for others and the stories that they have shared. These include news stories and perspectives on the world you live in.
These are our beliefs about ourselves, our values, our personas and how we present ourselves to others.
All these stories can be empowering or disempowering, depending on where you focus your attention and which stories you repeat again and again. The ones that are disempowering lead to the formation of ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts). ANTs have an important role in our lives – they help us stay safe. But too many ANTS impede our ability to explore new possibilities, grow and enjoy life to the fullest.
You already know that boats are safe in harbour, but that’s not what boats are meant to do.
It is thanks to your ability to imagine positive futures and focus on empowering stories about your past, that I have had the privilege and courage to lead an interesting life. I am grateful to you for the risks you’ve taken and the endless challenges that you have managed to overcome.
Love, from your future self
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Dr. Anke Verlinden is an award-winning clinical haematologist at the University Hospital of Antwerp in Belgium. As a senior staff member, she specializes in treating patients with acute leukemia, guiding them through the process of stem cell transplantation. She initiated a project on the effects of mindfulness meditation on the immune system function and quality of life of cancer patients in 2019 while also deepening her understanding of the role that food plays in our health and wellbeing.
Anke is the mother of three kids, one of whom was born with severe heart disease. This, combined with the increasing number of questions from patients on the possible effects of nutrition and lifestyle on their healing process, gave rise to several years of study and experimentation in areas that are not covered in medical school, plus a nutrition science degree from Stanford Medical School and a certification in Functional Medicine. She is now also a WILDFIT certified coach as part of her effort to help patients recover better and more quickly from cancer treatment.